memoir writing

5 Things I Wish People Understood about Reverse Culture Shock

November 9th, 2020|Accidental Soldier, Israel, memoir writing, mindset, new memoir, travel, Uncategorized, writing|

Six years ago, I self-diagnosed myself with Reverse Culture Shock, or RCS, an emotional displacement syndrome.  I know this because, after 7 years of doing reverse immigration to the States in 2007, I stumbled upon the symptoms of Reverse Culture Shock on an archived U.S. State Department's home page. Suddenly, I felt recognized and validated [...]

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5 Things I Know about What It Means to Celebrate my Jewish 50th Birthday

October 30th, 2020|Accidental Soldier, birth story, memoir writing, new memoir, Sand and Steel, Uncategorized|

Today is my Jewish 50th birthday. Turning 50. Like...wow. What a milestone. 50 years ago on the Jewish calendar, G-d gifted me with life and my mother of blessed memory gave birth to me in New York City Hospital. Just the number itself feels round, full of hope, potential, and promise like the challahs I [...]

Interview with Pittsburgh-based Lynda Schuster about her memoir of her life as a foreign correspondent and ambassador’s wife

March 5th, 2018|memoir writing, pain stories, storytelling|

Journalism. Memoir. Just seeing the two words side by side beckons contrast. One's factual, the other largely personal. One's reporting, the other is scene-driven. And yet, if you linger a bit between the two, you'll start to see some subtle overlap. Reporters hook their readers with scenes. Memoirists to report things I am forever fascinated by [...]

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The One Thing I Learned about Rejection from 60 Days of Crowdfunding My Memoir

June 26th, 2017|courage, crowdfunding, defining moments, dreams, memoir writing, new books, new memoir, pain stories, Uncategorized|

Today I want to talk a bit about rejection and how it affected me personally as an author specifically with crowdfunding. When I finalized the decision to go the crowdfunding route for my second memoir Sand and Steel: the Spiritual Journey Home, I was a bit hesitant. I had already published an award-winning book called [...]

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The Courage to Take Accidental Soldier on a Book Tour in Israel!

August 20th, 2016|courage, memoir writing, new memoir, promotion, speaking, success, target audience, the heroine's journey, transformation, transformational author experience, travel, vulnerability, writing as inspiration|

Now that I'm back on US soil, I feel compelled to share a report of the She Writes Press Israel edition tour I did for Accidental Soldier: A Memoir of Service and Sacrifice in the Israel Defense Forces.  General thoughts and impressions: To be at my home country where I did my voluntary service in [...]

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Do I Have the Courage to Get Close to these Israeli Soldiers?

April 17th, 2016|courage, memoir writing, new books, new memoir|

Yep. That's the question that concerns me too. But as a college freshman fresh from New York City.  As an author of Accidental Soldier: A Memoir of Service and Sacrifice in the Israel Defense Forces, I'm revisiting this story again by sharing with you short video "sneak peaks" of each chapter. So here [...]

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The First 3 Courage Scenes that Didn’t Make It Into Accidental Soldier

August 4th, 2015|memoir writing, new memoir, Pubslush, storytelling, the heroine's journey, Uncategorized, vulnerability|

This coming of age story of transformation and personal growth is uniquely told from a female immigrant serving in the Israel Defense Forces. This post focuses on all the juicy bits - the scenes of courage that aren't in the memoir, from the scary to the unexpected. 1. Learning about mines on the Israeli-Syrian border. [...]

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Finding Love in Gaza – Snapshot from My Memoir on My Service in the Israel Defense Forces

January 29th, 2015|memoir writing, new memoir|

I'm an innocent nineteen year old American who decided to leave my hometown of New York City to serve in the Israel Defense Forces mainly to get away from Mom's irrational fear and worries. Everything I've in fact, learned about the Arab speaking world in Israel has been heavily influenced by the media in relation [...]

The One Top Lesson I Learned from Basic Training in the Israel Defense Forces

January 8th, 2015|memoir writing, new memoir|

It's one thing to go through a difficult or challenging life experience. It's another thing to figure out the best way to write the lessons of that difficult period of myself, a mere 18-19 year old, complete basic training in the IDF, one of the most famous armies in the world. Simply put, along the [...]

Staying Positive in Tough Times: 3 Top Lessons from my Memoir about Serving in the Israel Defense Forces

January 6th, 2015|memoir writing, mindset|

One of the hardest things I had to deal with while serving in the Israel Defense Forces was learning to keep the faith and staying upbeat in touch times. I hardly spent enough time in Israel as a kid to feel a comfortable connection with the country, and serving in the military albeit by accident, [...]

3 Lessons I Didn’t Know Before Writing My Memoir About Serving in the Israel Defense Forces (IDF)

December 29th, 2014|memoir writing, new memoir|

"I want you to show me what type of power they exercised over you when you were younger. I really want to experience your life early on. What I would also like to experience is the emotional pull of your writing; I want to be transported into your emotional life more. I believe that your [...]

The Power of One Woman’s Quest: Everything I Ever Learned I Got from Serving in the Israel Defense Forces

November 14th, 2014|authenticity, Classroom, defining moments, faith, memoir writing, new books, new memoir, pain stories, the heroine's journey, transformation, vulnerability, writing|

In 1989, I was a sophomore at Suny at Albany. While my peers were declaring their majors, I felt I was wasting my time, which made me feel there was something wrong with me. One night, I had banged my head against the wall of my room crying. I've got to get out of here. [...]

Blogging the Themes of My Memoir: Trying to Find a Home while Serving on a Kibbutz (Israel Defense Forces)

June 3rd, 2014|blogging, defining moments, memoir writing, new memoir, storytelling, writing|

Doritos? Like what the fuck? How did he know to call me that name? He’s a Brit. They don’t have Doritos over there. Or do they? I want to tell him to go to hell. To shut the fuck up. I’ve been traumatized by the name “Doritos” all my public school life and right now, [...]

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How I Got to “BreakthroughLand” with My Memoir, “Silence: What the Israel Defense Forces Taught Me About Faith, Courage and Empowerment

May 22nd, 2014|author platform, defining moments, memoir writing, new memoir, storytelling, transformational author experience, writing, writing as inspiration|

Each day when I go to write at our local library or our neighborhood coffee shop to write my memoir, Silence: What the Israel Defense Forces Taught Me about Faith, Empowerment and Courage, I'm already filled up with nervous anticipation:  will I make progress with this scene?  Can I get into the right mood and [...]